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When You Choose To Walk Alone
I’m just going to structure this as a free write. I have been meditating on these thoughts for a minute. I’ve had some thoughts on women in solitude and a woman who can walk alone. A woman who can function independently will always come across as a powerful person. As I reflect on my relationships with other women in my life, I’ve realized a few truths. I think every friendship I’ve had has flourished more when I felt comfortable standing on my own, unafraid of the pressure of social connection. I’m comfortable standing on my own and unbending to the pressure of social connection. I learned to love others deeply…
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Soften your spirit, not your morals
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Soften your spirit, not your morals
TLDR: Is softness necessary? Yes, if you want the result it typically leads to. Every choice leads somewhere. I am one of those followers of Yahusha who believe the whole Bible is true. To give a little context. I am a stay-at-home mom, wife, and black woman in the Bible Belt. Within the context of my environment, I thought that many of the women around me would encourage me to follow the principles outlined in Titus 2. You know, about loving your husband and child(ren) with self-control lest the word be blasphemed. As someone who was in primary custody of my mother, I didn’t find a lot of balance in…
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When You Choose To Walk Alone
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25 Things I Learned 2025 at age 25
I love a good listicle, so here goes. 25 lessons I learned in 2025. I have actually been doing this since at least 22, but I didn’t have a backup of my website when it accidentally got wiped a while back. So I am starting up again. P.S. Check out the poem “Our Deepest Fear” by Marianne Williamson if you have never heard it. I couldn’t stop thinking about it as I wrote my last points. I have copied and pasted it down below. Our Deepest Fear By Marianne Williamson Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It…
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His Love Found Me
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Happy Mom Content
Okay, so for the first time last week, since I got pregnant, had a baby, and actually started parenting… I saw a woman on the internet jumping up and down, talking about how bomb it is to be a mom. I pretty much live with the philosophy that your child is living life alongside you. You are growing up together. I just happen to have a 20+ year head start over my child. Also, I like to think of my little one as Yah’s child that I have the privilege of taking care of until they can take care of themselves. I say all this to say, I really like…
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His Love Found Me
Hi! I just felt it on my heart to share my testimony. Yahuah is good all the time, and all the time Yahuah is good. I don’t want to let any more time pass without putting out my full testimony. It is my prayer that this helps someone out there. As a child, my parents were together on and off until their divorce. My parents weren’t always so present with me. Growing up, I was singled out from amongst my siblings as the black sheep. This left me lonely. At that time, spent a lot of time alone looking out the window of the room I shared with my sister.…
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25 Things I Learned 2025 at age 25
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A Bad Day ≠ A Bad Life
If you don’t take away anything else from this blog, this is a message everyone should carry with them. Sometimes, life can feel like you have hit your lowest point. You know that thought. “Will it ever get better?” ”Is this all there is to life?” “If this is it… do I want much more of this???” I think so many people are having these thoughts. At least, that is how it seems when I look on social media. Sometimes, I think so many are having a crisis or making their lives out to be something sparkly that you might see on a reality TV show. I do not believe…
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To the Woman Dreaming of Love
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To the Woman Dreaming of Love
I know you. I was you. Wondering what it feels like to hold a special place in someone’s heart fills your days. No matter how busy you get, the thought/feeling slips back to you. If you could think of what to do… You would do it, of course. It’s just not that simple. Family drama and the men you meet make you wonder, “Is it worth it?” Sis, it is. You know that, though. I’m guessing you’re the type of woman who knows your “Why”, even if you don’t envision how you’ll get there. You’ll get there. I did. I had to let go of everything I thought I wanted. This meant…
