Okay, so for the first time last week, since I got pregnant, had a baby, and actually started parenting… I saw a woman on the internet jumping up and down, talking about how bomb it is to be a mom. I pretty much live with the philosophy that your child is living life alongside you. You are growing up together. I just happen to have a 20+ year head start over my child. Also, I like to think of my little one as Yah’s child that I have the privilege of taking care of until they can take care of themselves. I say all this to say, I really like…

If you don’t take away anything else from this blog, this is a message everyone should carry with them. Sometimes, life can feel like you have hit your lowest point. You know that thought. “Will it ever get better?” ”Is this all there is to life?” “If this is it… do I want much more of this???” I think so many people are having these thoughts. At least, that is how it seems when I look on social media. Sometimes, I think so many are having a crisis or making their lives out to be something sparkly that you might see on a reality TV show. I do not believe…

I know you. I was you. Wondering what it feels like to hold a special place in someone’s heart fills your days. No matter how busy you get, the thought/feeling slips back to you. If you could think of what to do… You would do it, of course. It’s just not that simple. Family drama and the men you meet make you wonder, “Is it worth it?” Sis, it is. You know that, though. I’m guessing you’re the type of woman who knows your “Why”, even if you don’t envision how you’ll get there. You’ll get there. I did. I had to let go of everything I thought I wanted. This meant…