Happy Mom Content

Okay, so for the first time last week, since I got pregnant, had a baby, and actually started parenting… I saw a woman on the internet jumping up and down, talking about how bomb it is to be a mom.

I pretty much live with the philosophy that your child is living life alongside you. You are growing up together. I just happen to have a 20+ year head start over my child. Also, I like to think of my little one as Yah’s child that I have the privilege of taking care of until they can take care of themselves. I say all this to say, I really like gentle parenting. I do not know how everything will play out, but gentle parenting is where my heart is at.

I don’t know how I ended up on that side of Tik Tok, but if the algorithm is watching this… please keep me there. I want to see all the women loving their babies, talking, about,” I am so happy to be your mom”. I think about it with my own child all the time. I will call them E just for the sake of their privacy, but I love being their mom so much. I love the cute little laugh and smiles. I even love the unblinking stares and them not looking away when I look at them.

That was kinda a tangent, but for real, I honestly hate to see women complain about their children. I mean, I don’t think I would ever start acting right if I knew all someone did was complain about me. I see it in both real life and on the internet, and it always makes me cringe. Of course, you have seen your child’s bad side. You have seen every sick day, every sad moment, every heartbreak. No one is happy all the time. Sometimes even the little ones misbehave when they feel bad.

It just caught me off guard to see this woman bouncing up and down, talking about how much she loves her baby. I was physically in shock in the best way. I have met pregnant women who are already deciding how they can keep their unborn child from getting in the way of them living their lives. Personally, I live life right alongside my baby. They go everywhere I go. When I need to do something without them, like use the computer or my phone for an extended period, I do it during nap time.

Long story short, I have definitely found my corner of the internet, and I am thoroughly loving happy mom content. I didn’t know people made this type of content.