TLDR: Is softness necessary? Yes, if you want the result it typically leads to. Every choice leads somewhere. I am one of those followers of Yahusha who believe the whole Bible is true. To give a little context. I am a stay-at-home mom, wife, and black woman in the Bible Belt. Within the context of my environment, I thought that many of the women around me would encourage me to follow the principles outlined in Titus 2. You know, about loving your husband and child(ren) with self-control lest the word be blasphemed. As someone who was in primary custody of my mother, I didn’t find a lot of balance in…